Keeping Our Children Safe
We drill in our children heads the tools to being safe. We tell them to avoid strangers and report bad people on the internet and still sometimes that is not enough.
Criminals or those who prey on the innocence of little kids and some older kids are just that, criminals. They know how to manipulate and convince our children that they are friendly and non threatening. Sometimes I wonder if the constant lectures and news reports about your children being hurt is enough to convince my children that strangers and some that are not, are bad people. Continue reading
If you have read my blog over the years, you know how I feel about Valentines Day. I take this opportunity to make my children feel special. It is all about them, from the moment they wake until they go to bed. I just shower them with all these cheesy gifts or crafts of love.
Don’t get me wrong I show them love all the time, but for some reason this holiday is always a big deal and them just knowing I love them or the fact that I show my love all the time is not enough, they need a gesture. So this holiday has become all about them.
Politics has spread beyond just adult conversation in these days. Our children have more questions and they are being introduced to political talk early on, be it at school, on social media, or among friends and family members.
How do you help your child understand the changes that are going on around them?
My children are of all different age groups and I know that they have become very opinionated about what they have heard “around town”. How I choose to talk to them about politics has to be appropriate, unbiased of my own opinions and thoughts, and informative but on their level.
If you are a parent of young children, you are already trying to decide if you are going to party with or without your children, when bringing in the New Year.
Now, if you are anything like me, you already feel the guilt of leaving your children with someone else at this momentous time. I mean, welcoming in a New Year without the joys of seeing your children destroying your home, acting delirious because they are sleepy but need to stay awake, or the best one yet bouncing off the walls because they have had too much sugar so late in the evening.
Okay, decision made, I’m staying home to bring in the New Year with the kiddies. I mean they are the first faces I want to see when 2017 comes ringing in.
The dreaded tantrum. In the store, on the plane, at a restaurant, at drop off, at a friends house, or the best one yet, at the movies.
You would like to think that our children love us enough to have tantrums at home or in the car on the way to the public area, but no, that does not give them the attention they so desperately need.
Is it unfair to think that our children have us wrapped around their little fingers at least 80% of the time? I mean there are some parents who would say 99% of the time and then there are our parents of the year who would say only 10% of the time.
Well, hello, I am that 80% of the time parent. I mean I would like to think that I have the upper hand, but my child has strategically planned when to have those moments of
I need attention, I don’t care if it’s good or bad attention, just give it to me now.
Realistically that’s all a tantrum is, the ability to have the upper hand and get what you want at the exact moment you want it.
Most times when Christmas break approaches parents of preschoolers and Pre-k children began to wonder if their child will be ready for Kindergarten, in the fall. It is not premature to think about the readiness of your child, and how much more time is needed to prepare them for SCHOOL. It is a nightmare that every parent faces, unless you are that parent that has a child who adapts in any and every situation. Kudos to you and your nice life. To everyone else I know that anxiety.
I have a large family so I did not think about how ready my child was until the end of their pre-k year of school. I procrastinated over the summer and three weeks before school started I got serious. I wish I had paid attention and prepared long before then.
The mother part of me, thought I had dropped the bomb, but the teacher part of me knew it was not rocket science, just some patience and organization.
Now, kindergarten readiness does not just mean academically ready, because there are many children who never set foot in a structured learning environment until kindergarten or even 1st grade.